Viola, Taraji and me (Ebony cover, May…)

29 09 2009

Viola Davis and Taraji P. Henson graced the cover of Ebony in May 2009. I wrote the story, so I got to hang out at the photo shoot to get a feel for the ladies and their personalities. I’ll never forget how I met Viola. I arrived to the location early (a mansion in an ultra swanky part of a suburb of L.A.) and my cell wouldn’t work inside the house because of its 24 carot gold-plated walls. (Seriously.) I went out to the gates, past the guard house to the street to call my husband. (I’m a newlywed, remember?) And I see this beautiful black woman trudging up the street with suede boots, a purple sweater and a book. It’s Viola!

I go down to meet her. We walk in together. I show her the house, introduce her to the owner, bring her to the back room where her makeup artist is waiting to do her hair and apply makeup.

I love this photo!

We took this picture after a swanky lunch in Beverly Hills.

We took this picture after a swanky lunch in Beverly Hills.

The house belonged to a famous jeweler. His daughter was house sitting make sure we didn’t take any jewels or anything. Of course, the body guard were there to prevent anything – not that I would take a thing! The house had diamond chandeliers, a fireplace large enough for me to walk in and a backyard with a river running through it.

The owners loved fantasy novels like J.R.R. Tolkien’s The Hobbit, and their backyard showed their whimsical fancy.
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THe same guys who cooked for Diddy also cooked for Taraji and Viola. The food was extremely good. Breakfast, lunch and dinner for a loooong looooong shoot. Omelettes to order, salmon, designer tea, oatmeal, fruit salad and designer coffee for the am. Braised chicken, asparagus salad, kobe beef, apple pie, chocolate cookies, seafood salad (with real crab and lobster), and more designer coffee , water and pop.

We retired inside for fancy pictures in the red room.

In the red room at the photo shoot in the mansion.

In the red room at the photo shoot in the mansion.





Newlywed ruminations on love and finding the one

31 08 2009

I’m soon to be wed for one year and in that one year I’ve learned that life shifts tremendously upon saying “I do.” I’ve also realized that I spent an awful lot of time talking to his friends and my friends about finding that special someone and why you get married in the first place.

Here’s the deal, we are in a new period of relationship history wherein traditional gender roles are being rewritten and people in my generation are having a difficult time navigating the changes. After all, our parents can’t help us. Our parents pretty much stuck to the man/woman division of help in the household. They don’t know what to do about kids who chose to not get married until they are 37 and then complain that they can’t have babies because they’re too old to have them.

Nowadays, a woman can become an MD and open her own practice before she finds enough time to date. She also wants a guy who is her social and economic better. (Old gender roles die hard, huh?) And the guys out there? They think they need to have three BMWs and a house before they settle down with a lady. But you know what’s wrong with all that waiting until “perfection?” You get old in the process and set in your ways. And while you’re waiting for perfection, all the imperfect people got married and became that ultimate Cosby couple within 10 years of being wed.

Consider this: Barack Obama was a misfit when he was a kid. He wasn’t cute. He wasn’t hot. He got older and tried to date the lady lawyer who was his mentor. He drove a car with a hole in the floor. And Ms. Michelle wasn’t the cute cheerleader or the  hot shot wannabe model type. They found each other before they were finished. And they allowed themselves to love each other throughout the changes of becoming finished and polished. Now they are the ultimate power couple and pretty attractive to boot.

I meet so many women who want a man who is already a hot shot attorney or a doctor. I say: what’s wrong with marrying him before he peaks?

Same for the guys out there. Why are you waiting to ask her for her hand in marriage? Just do it! It’s ok if you don’t have the downtown townhouse or the 5 carot ring. Don’t you know that married couples have far greater buying power (and far lower taxes) than singles? Married men live longer than single men. Married people earn more money than single people and therefore are closer to affording their dream house. And last, you are not as cute at 40 as you were at 30…

What are you waiting for?

By the way, my husband and I aren’t finished and I love it. He’s in school again. I just got a huge promotion. We’re both excited about the new direction our lives are taking together. We are awesome as individuals. But together, we are definitely a greater force to reckon with.





Hello world!

30 08 2009

Writers write because of their adventures.

Here are a few of mine…

I am responsible for entertainment coverage. That means that, five months prior to you even hearing about the movie, I have to know what it is and when it is coming out. Why? So that I can get it covered (or not) in the pages of my employer’s magazine. So.. I heard about G.I. Joe in April. I talked with the film studio. I wanted to get it into the magazine. I assigned a Q&A with Adewale (Mr.Eko from Lost) to be written by a staffer. Said staffer wrote the piece and it got into the magazine. I recently saw G.I. Joe at the local AMC theater. It’s kind of wild to be watching a movie and realizing that you have interviewed most of the stars on the screen. (I don’t think I’ll ever get used to that.) Even more interesting though, was thinking about how I contribute to the big, grinding machine of entertainment capitalism.

I write or assign the coverage. You read the coverage. Said coverage is supplemented by action figures or cartoons or tv commercials during your favorite show. And then boom, you buy the product. That’s how it works folks.

We need the money to keep our economy churning, right? Perhaps. I often wonder how these movies would do if not for the great spin machine that pushed them out to the masses. If you didn’t see a commercial or read a review.. If they didn’t set up press previews a half a year in advance… Would you even know what to watch or what to buy? I know people claim to get most of their content and news via the internet. But the media here plays a very important role in keeping capitalism spinning ’round. If not for the CNNs and Times and Heralds and MTVS of the world, what would you really know?








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