Journalism: Sade covers Ebony magazine
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City Stories: Not a big fan of small hotels/motels….
23 02 2010Perhaps I’ve been watching too much Cold Case or CSI, but I the only female who isn’t too keen on staying in a hotel or motel by myself?
I recently took a trip to Iowa, and I had to stay in a Sheraton in a small town. I drove myself down there and it was about a five hour ride in the snow. The hotel was nice and they did get me on the second floor. I locked my door and all that. But midway through the night, I woke up because I SWEAR that someone was trying to open my door. My sleep was shot then.
Another time I was staying at a Motel 6 in a small town outside of Oklahoma City. I was there with a photographer because we were covering a Harley Davidson rally at an open field about five miles down some dirt road. I’m not usually a Motel 6 patron, but this really was the only spot to stay.
After washing a roach down the sink, I sat on the bed and tried to sleep. But between remembering the truckers asking me if I was alone, the bikers asking me if I wanted a ride and the shadows that kept walking by my window, sleep eluded me. I couldn’t do it. The photographer, on the other hand, said he slept like a baby. His room was nowhere close to mine.
Last example… Two years ago I was on Obama’s campaign trail as part of Ebony’s election coverage. I had followed him to Iowa, North Carolina, South Carolina… But in South Carolina, I once again was at a motel because my company couldn’t get me into the hotel with the other reporters. So my motel was spread out along some train tracks and at the edge of a forest. I was in room 1, building 14, which was facing the train tracks and at the extreme northern end of this complex. When I drove all the way to the back, I was the only car in a parking lot whose lights didn’t work. They also put me on the first floor, ground level. (there were only two floors to this motel.)
Then, my kitchenette door didn’t lock from the inside and the room wasn’t clean. Before I could even call the front desk, a security guard knocks at the door, asking to be let in. And I’m like, “Oh Shit.” I called the front desk and got immediately transferred. The security guard finally went away when I didn’t open the door. The new room, now on the second floor, was just as dark and out of the way as the old one. They refused to give me a room facing the highway!
I wound up taking myself to the Embassy Suites across the highway and paying for my own hotel room in an actual hotel. I was on the fourth floor – NOT the ground floor. The accounting folks got a little miffed at me for making the switch. And the men in my party (who all had motel suites facing the highway) didn’t understand why I didn’t want to stay in a ground-level motel room facing the forest, but I guess they don’t know much about being a woman traveling by herself.
My husband was the one who strongly suggested that I need to relocate myself into a proper hotel and pay for it myself if the company won’t do it. So that’s what I did. And, I slept quite well that night. No roaches, no bounty hunters in the bathroom (true story! I’ll tell that one next…) and no one jiggling at my hotel door in the middle of the night.
Of course, put me on the 25th floor of the Hyatt in New York City or on the 3rd floor of the Standard in Los Angeles and I sleep like a baby.
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Journalism: Don’t check your voicemail? Is that really a good idea?
21 01 2010I checked my voicemail this morning. There were 40 new messages.
I checked my email. There were 123 unread messages.
It took me about an hour and a half to go through everything, respond to everyone and file away what needed filing.
I’ve read the work of some career coaches who suggest that those of us experiencing communication overload might want to finish our daily work before checking our voicemail or responding to email. This could be quite effective if you didn’t need to respond to certain, urgent emails.
So here’s a challenge. What happens to your productivity if you don’t check your email or voicemail until after lunch? A few friends are doing this experiment with me.
I’m always looking for other tips that help you make the most of your time. Got any? I’ll share. I promise.
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Tags: checking email, don't check email, efficiency, time management, voicemails
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Life: America’s best minds (?) miss the mark on Haiti
18 01 2010I’m on the Medill School of Journalism (Northwestern University) alumni listserve. There, hundreds if not thousands of NU alumni usually discuss job opportunities, tenets of journalism, journalism best practices and the top news of the day. The past week the listserve has been inundated with news of Haiti. Some people are all for donating and helping, but a disturbing number of vocal listserve members are “tired” of giving help to Haiti.
I like listserves because under the cloak of psuedo-anonymity, people say what’s really on their minds. It’s good to be reminded that there are still racist, self-serving, anti-Black/African, so-called intellectuals out there. There are members of the ’serve who truly believe that it makes no sense to help anyone else other than Americans who are homeless and dying of hunger.
Here’s a sampling. All names have been withheld to protect the innocent.
“K, people. I’m sorry to be inflammatory (well, not really — I’m sorry if I offend anyone, though), but this is a journalism listserv.
Furthermore, and much more importantly, I would like to remind everyone that there are thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, of destitute people right here in the United States. Yes, the earthquake in Haiti was a tragedy, just as the tsunami was several years ago, but we still have people here at home who are recovering from Katrina. We have Vietnam veterans who are homeless. We have vets from Iraq and Afghanistan who are psychologically scarred, physically impaired and unable to work. We have thousands of homeless living in the freakin’ tunnels of the New York subway system. We have children who grow up in the virtual war zones of the ghettos in our own cities. What about them?
Why is it that the United States is always expected to give the most aid to disaster-afflicted countries, and yet we get no thanks for it? Why do we spend so many of our tax dollars on countries like Haiti and Iraq when so many of our own live in such squalid conditions? So no, I won’t fast for Haiti. But I would fast so that some AMERICAN without food, shelter, water or medical care could have it.
Again, I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but I think we come off as jackasses by helping everyone but ourselves.”
It seems that the above comment is a popular sentiment. At this in this person’s case, they didn’t insert some of the racist vitriol I’ve seen in other listserves.
Here’s another comment, a response to the above post.
“have you ever been to Haiti? Just wondering. Your comments lead me to believe that you probably have not.
I was there in 2008 following the slew of hurricanes that devastated some of the rural communities. The majority of people in the country live on less than $1 per day. At night it would take forever to get from the embassy to where we were staying since the roads through town are mostly unpaved. If it it was raining, the roads would wash out. After sunset, Port au Prince was almost completely dark as there is so little electricity. The poverty and lack of infrastructure in that country were overwhelming. And keep in mind, that this was pre-earthquake.
I am not denying there are issues in the U.S., but our infrastructure and social services are vastly superior to those in Haiti. There are no homeless shelters or department of veterans affairs as there are here.
I have friends working over there right now. The city is flattened. There is no functioning government. The hospitals are gone. I am looking at pictures and I do not recognize Port au Prince. To state “yes, the earthquake in Haiti was a tragedy,” comes off as a bit flippant, to be honest. The poverty and issues in the States are nowhere near the poverty and issues in Haiti.”
The folks on the listserve have been arguing about this for the last week or so. It started with someone criticizing CNN’s Sanjay Gupta’s role as a doctor-journalist. And then, someone else asked Medill grads to donate the cost of one meal out on the town to a Haiti organization. That stirred quite a few people up.
Here’s what I posted:
All right yall..
How many of you are using Martin Luther King day as a national day of service? How many of YOU are out, right now at DuSable Museum or at the so-called “dreaded” (and Black!) Altgeld Gardens right now passing out food or gym shoes or offering tutoring? Hmm. Not many. How many of you are fighting to make sure your employer gives you MLK day off so that you can go volunteer somewhere for the greater good? How many of you tithe and donate to the poor regularly? How many of you give one day a month to helping kids who don’t look like you or who don’t worship like you? What are you personally doing to end America’s homelessness? Are you out there, under Wacker Drive, feeding people or giving them blankets on 30 degree days? Do you stop and donate money to every homeless person who begs from you as you pump gas on 12th and Wabash?
Did you do anything to help Katrina victims? Did you lobby your politicians and complain about the racist practices that led to the devastation of Katrina? Did you cover Katrina in a way that brought light to the situation? Are you STILL covering it in that way?
The problems in our nation go unattended because we, the people, are not attending to them. Let’s not get that twisted. If everyone in this nation really wanted little black and brown children to be well-educated, they would be. If everyone in this nation really wanted healthcare for everyone, we would have it. And if everyone in this nation really wanted zero homelessness, everyone would be housed and fed – not in ghettos, but in nice places with trees, grass and access to stores that sell healthy food.
Freedom of speech is paramount. Say what you want. But, I certainly hope that all the folks complaining about US citizens helping Haitians are not throwing stones from their own glass houses… “
Thoughts?
- Adrienne
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Life: Pissed about a Break In
16 01 2010Someone broke into my car earlier this week. They unscrewed my whole dashboard and tried to pull out the heater controls and the stereo. Tried is the key word here. They only got away with my CDs and my face plate. But in so doing, they destroyed my dash, killed my radio and murdered my chair and door.
I’m not sure how they got in, but whatever they did to the door it now is extremely difficult to push or pull.
I called the police about this. No one would be available to come to my house to check it out, I was told. But I could make a report over the phone. I admit I was a bit shocked that when you call the police to report a break in, they say they won’t come… that it’s standard operating procedure not to come. WTF?!?
Two hours later I try again. This time I find my local CAPS officer. I ask her to come on out. She sends a truck over. They decide that, due to the cold and the fact that there isn’t a homicide involved, they won’t be dusting for fingerprints. The following is a direct quote from the officer: “I know you don’t consider this to be a little crime, but it kinda is. You know, not meaning to be disrespectful. But really unless someone is shot, we won’t really investigate when someone breaks into a car or vandalizes it.”
I suppose I should be happy for this honesty?
Instead it just makes me mad. They didn’t steal anything but an old tape recorder (yes, real tape. I forgot I had it in there) from under my seat and my Stevie Wonder and Gotta Have Gospel CDs (in a handy, dandy, Delta Sigma Theta carry case) but they vandalized my car. They rifled through my stuff, and then they closed the door AND put the alarm back on.
What were they looking for? Did they work for a chop shop and just so happen to need the driver side chair of an 11 year old Nissan Altima? Did they want the heating controls? Did they want the old-ass stereo that doesn’t even play MP3s? Then they TAKE my Jay Z CD and leave Timbaland and Terence Blanchard. I just don’t get it.
Do you?
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